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The Unintentional Loctician: Palm Rolling Method

Hey Naturals!!

Over the last few years there has been a big boom within the natural hair community for both women and men. It seems there are more men are comfortable with having natural hair not consisting of braids or cornrows. Cornrows are apart of African (American) culture to tame our kinky hair and have it styled as the same time. Now, I notice many of our men are rocking styles that no longer require a womans touch. Surprisingly they too are surfing through YouTube vids trying to find out what to do and what works. Congrats to those guys, however we still have some that prefer another traditional method of growing out their hair… LOCS! Locs are formed by binding a sectioned area of hair with a locking cream and twisting tightly from the root to the tips, holding each in place with a pin.

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Hair Appt: Retwisting.

Since I am a natural gal and I do provide hair services I get a lot of requests to do Loc services. However, previously I haven’t taken any appointments to do that particular style. Now… I have done tons of starter locs and re-twisting styles. I had no clue that once I started the word would spread so quickly! Trust me I am not complaining, but I do need a larger tub of locking cream thanks to word of mouth.

For this clients hair I chose to use the Jamaican Mango and Lime brand of locking gel. It smells great and has a nice thick consistency without having too much product build up in the hair. The service provided was a re-twist.

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Hair Appt: Retwist results with Jamaican Mango&Lime locking cream/gel.

Re-twisting loc’d hair is simple. You must start by defining an area of hair to re-twist. Place a small amount of the product on the root of the hair and run the remaining product down the hair. Taking my two index finger I began to twist the hair in the same direction of the original loc. This is important as you don’t want to actually unravel the hair as you move down the loc strand. Another key is to pay attention to the thinness or thickness of your clients roots. Twisting too tightly will cause breakage. Locs broken at the roots are the worst! Continue twisting/palm rolling and adding more product in small amounts (if necessary) keeping the tension of your twist and finally sealing with a clip. I may or may not use a dryer to seal the cream/gel. This will depend on how fine or curly my clients hair may be.

All in all, I had no intentions or even considered doing mens hair. I just knew my home salon would be filled with natural women needing protective styles. I was wrong. I actually do more guys hair than women. Word of mouth has now set me as a Loctician and on my part it was totally unintentional.

Hair on Fleek! (Good Hair Day)

Hey Naturals!

The whole process of learning what actually works for your coils and kinks and what will not work on any given day (for me it’s a wash & no no) can get quite expensive and frustrating. Simple oils, thicker oils for winter, and a shea butter mix have been my best friend. Once my hair is cleansed and has had the moisture sealed in watch out, giiirl you can’t tell me nothing!  When the good hair days come around and stay around, you have found your routine.

fb kkinks blogFor this specific look I set my hair over night in flat twist all over my head. In the front I chose about 3/4 of the front to be twisted one way and the rest in the opposite direction. The crown of my head was also in chunky flat twists the same direction as the front 3/4 of my hair.

The trick is to only tease the front and crown of the head leaving the rest of the flat twist curled tighter with minimum fluff. Rollers can be used on your flat twist going around the head (not the front or crown)if your hair is longer. This will make those sections of hair appear shorter giving your style shape. I currently do not have a “style” for my natural tresses. I mostly do whatever comes to mind. Sometimes it’s a mess and other days… its a masterpiece!! Today is hair is on FLEEK ❤

Shoe Review: GoJane.com

Hey Naturals!!

One thing that I can say that will not go away anytime soon is my love for shoes! Never mind that the right pair will lift that booty, make those legs appear longer and give you a strut to kill for. It will have your confidence on “You need to calm down”, lol. My confidence of being a woman isn’t solely based on cosmetics and image, but hunty if a pair of 3 – 4.5 inch pumps don’t give me life! I have to admit that most of my shoes right now are on a break due to the winter season, but don’t worry… they’ll be out again soon enough. My latest purchase was from GoJane.com. I have made purchases from them before. Their shoes fit pretty true to size and fit as comfortable as expected. I have not had to add any of those pressure relief sole inserts in any of the shoes.

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Clearly 4u Ankle Strap Heels ($15) & Unknown (sold out-$18).

Since my purchase I have only wore the strapless pair. Don’t worry I do have an outfit on standby for the metallic green pair as well.

My reasoning for shopping at GoJane.com is the bargains! You can really get a nice pair of shoes for the low. Stylish, affordable and in my closet is how I like them. I also have read other reviews from this online store and most reviews received are great! The only real factor I seen with dissatisfaction is the fit. Some say true to size while others say it runs smaller or larger. I honestly feel this may due to what the brand of the shoe is.

Overall if you are on the hunt for inexpensive shoes with style or even something more simple like a leatherette point toe pump in different flavors… GoJane is a fix! Expensive shoes don’t show class… your walk and the cross of the leg does! While trying not curse like a sailor, lol.

My 2 Year Anniversary!

Hey Naturals!! Let me start by saying if your going through your hair journey and feel like you want to scream, cut it all off and just wear wigs or get that creamy crack… you are not alone. Sheesh! This does take plenty of patience and commitment. Since I’ve been rocking my natural hair I’ve been an on and off again product junkie trying to find out what works for my hair. I have finally perfected a routine that actually works for me. When coming up with a hair routine to retain the length of your hair, strength in your strands and moisture for your ends it is best to keep it simple! When I first started (and now) I kept hearing keep it simple, keep it simple.. blah blah blah. It is definitely the truth. At the end of the first year is when I started to get the hang of it, however still mostly wearing protective styles like Senegalese/Kinky twist.

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2 year length check.

Now at the end of my second year and starting my third year in this health hair journey I am totally loving my hair. Less frustrations, more understanding equals plenty more smiles and better hair days! There were a few months were I was a completely lazy natural. No moisturizing, no satin bonnet at night, days before the next moisturizing of any tips, using watery products without sealing ends with oil…. ooooh my goodness I was the worst. Glad those days are over. I really had to recommit myself to this natural hair journey. Also, I had to find the time to do so. Having such thick hair does require more attention and time, especially as it grows longer. I’ve learned to care for my hair by not using a (wide tooth) comb as much, moisturizing every night, wearing my satin bonnet, surprisingly using less products for my hair and keeping my hands out of it. Doing my hair less and leaving them in twists have been my staple routine for the past few months and my hair is thanking me for it. I have trimmed my hair twice in the last 3 months to get rid of those terrible ends I gained while not caring for my hair. I totally don’t mind losing an inch knowing the year ahead its going to be great. My hair goal is to retain another 4-5 inches over the next year. Wish me luck loves!!

A 4c (Hair) Staple: The Bonnet Dryer

Hey Naturals!!

I have a new Winter Moisture Routine that I would like to share. I have learned a lot about my hair in the last two years of my healthy hair journey. We all know the winter is brutal on natural hair, if not taken care of properly, so this year I HAD to switch it up. My (4c) hair required more heat applied when I did my deep condition routine, which my dryer can not do alone. I needed something compact with ease of use to get the job done. The Bonnet Dryer was the perfect solution. Over the season I have also found an oil mix that works for me. I encourage naturals to use thicker oils like avocado oil, castor oil and my favorite olive oil. Coconut oil is just a must. It is terrible as a sealant, but has many benefits as you know.

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Both products can be found in the Hair Supply or Beauty section of most drug stores.

I have done this routine twice and so far so great! My hair has definitely been more manageable, softer and holds a slight natural sheen to it. My choice of products may not work for you, but then again.. it might.

First thing with my hair is sectioning before cleansing. Then for co-washing I generally use Patene or TRESemme’ products, same for the deep condition process. I love using my current conditioner. It does exactly what the bottle says and leaves my hair feeling moisturized with a pleasant softness. I apply it tips to root. This is the best time to detangle because the product gives my hair necessary slip reducing breakage. Once all sections are done, time to move on. This Cantu Tea Tree & Jojoba oil mix is my new favorite! The smell is great, it has a thick consistency and does wonders as my sealant. Again, I apply to all sections tips to root then I tend to twist my hair making sure all my hair is getting the product.

Both products bought from Amazon. Total was about $16

Both products bought from Amazon. Total was about $16

Before using my bonnet the infamous plastic bag comes out, lol. Both times I sat under for about 20-25 mins. It does get pretty hot and I do recommend purchasing ear cuffs. The usual flat two strand twists are go to protective style after a wash because the tension on the roots keep my hair from shrinking too tightly. I let it set overnight sleeping with my satin hair bonnet.

Deep Conditon & twistout results.

Deep Condition & twist-out results.

I’m soooo glad I purchased this dryer bonnet. That winter “crunchy” hair is defeated. I am in looove! My overall results were awesome. I am going to continue to do this twice a month for the rest of the season.

I would definitely recommend this bonnet to any natural who has really dry ends, breakage, course/thick hair or looking to use heat in their deep conditioning process. For me, this is my 4c (hair) Staple!

Staples by Dutchess

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Palm Oil Deep conditioner

Organic hair and skin products in Nigeria

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Oh yes! I said it! So what you do is chop onions and mix it with the palm oil and…………..lol noooo we are not cooking hair egusi, this is a real thing.

We have many natural beauty secrets that are often ignored in this present day and age in Nigeria. My husband actually pointed out to me how his grandma put palm oil in her hair! So when you want to rejuvenate your hair look no further than your kitchen.

The composition of palm oil makes it so great for the skin and hair, palm oil is rich in alpha carotene, beta carotene and a mixture of ten other carotenes, it’s also very high in vitamin E ( tocopherols and rare tocotrienols). When consumed the beta carotene is converted to vitamin A by the body, and vitamin A is used to combat hair loss. Carotene which is the basis for…

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Beach Waves Natural 4c Hair

Meals of each day.

      The best things in my life are free. The face of family in the morning, the beat of a higher power in my chest and carpe diém engraved on the soles of my feet. Nothing in life comes with a guarantee… and I am still willing to jump off the bridge to feel the wind beneath my wings.
      Soaring to my definition of success not bound by expectations of others, nor is it too far into the future that I can not taste it. Love served humbly on the rocks, I gracefully chew a piece of the winners pie. Bold risk taking, pupil mentality and observation are the stems on my fork. I don’t rush to eat meals because the most important part is the digestion.

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